Arnaud Bornens
Co-founder & Managing Partner of Everswing I Systemic coach - Executive coach - Supervisor - Author
- Speaker
Published on 08/10/2021
In the series: “A systemic coach’s view” n°7/2873
What is now known as the “submarine crisis” reflects a fundamental notion in human system
exchanges, between people, between teams, between companies or between governments. Within the
framework of the 76th General Assembly of the United Nations, our Minister for Europe and
Foreign Affairs @Jean-Yves Le Drian clearly spoke about it in a press conference: “the problem
today goes beyond the breach of a contract (...), it is first of all the question of the breach
of trust between partners. Because trust, (...) means predictability, explanations,
communicating, not hiding, (...) but all that has not been honoured”.
We know that we cannot impose trust, it grows over time in relationships between partners. And,
as @François Dupuy states in his book “We cannot order companies to change”, what nurtures trust
is the predictability of the other party. In a company, a manager who wants to create a feeling
of trust within their team should concentrate on reducing the uncertainty of their own behaviour
towards their collaborators. The counter balance is to give up part of one's power because,
according to @Michel Crozier (cf “The Bureaucratic Phenomenon”), the exercise of power means
mastering the uncertainty of the other.
So what should you do? How can you encourage a collaboration of trust while retaining
decision-making power? One solution may lie in clarifying the rules of collaboration as a team.
Collaborating confidently would then consist in securing relations through explicit working
methods providing for predefined areas of flexibility.
And you, how do you build trust within your teams?
Image: Singing in the Rain - Stanley Donen, Gene Kelly